DAOS-18487 rebuild: pause aggregation before discard

[gnailzenh]

Steps for the author:

• Commit message follows the guidelines.
• Appropriate Features or Test-tag pragmas were used.
• Appropriate Functional Test Stages were run.
• At least two positive code reviews including at least one code owner from each category referenced in the PR.
• Testing is complete. If necessary, forced-landing label added and a reason added in a comment.

After all prior steps are complete:

• Gatekeeper requested (daos-gatekeeper added as a reviewer).

[github-actions]

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https://daosio.atlassian.net/browse/DAOS-18487

[daosbuild3]

Test stage Functional Hardware Medium Verbs Provider MD on SSD completed with status FAILURE. https://jenkins-3.daos.hpc.amslabs.hpecorp.net//job/daos-stack/job/daos/view/change-requests/job/PR-17602/1/execution/node/1342/log