fix: improve Node.js v25 compatibility for better-sqlite3

[salws]

• Update better-sqlite3 to v12.6.3 for better compatibility
• Add Node version upper bound (<25.0.0) in engines field
• Add Node v25 detection warning in postinstall script
• Improve error messages for v25+ users with fallback options

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